It really is a way to feel fully accepted by your partner. When I was younger, I had experiences with women who couldn’t hide the disgust on their faces when they’d see the result of a climax. It even extended to the actual penis, where I heard from a few “I like how dicks feel but I don’t like looking at them”. I blame this mostly on immaturity and lack of proper and healthy education, expectations, and societal values.
Now that I’m 32, the women I encounter seem genuinely enthused to look at my body and take interest in pleasuring me.
But the “pillow princess” mentality is still all too prevalent with this sentiment that the women are gifting men and gracing them with their mere presence as opposed to acknowledging the mutual gift and experience of intercourse.
I love swallow because a) I love him; and/or b) worship him; and/or c) am so fucking horny and want him to be to; BUT the prerequisite and logistical limitation is that I need a snack beforehand, preferably ginger ale and saltines (so not hot, I know), so that I am not blowing on a totally full or totally empty stomach, because I have a sensitive stomach and something about semen on an empty stomach gives me a stomachache. Unfortunately. So please offer me a snack before you go waving your dick in my face.
Well, you know how to help yourself, that’s great! it’s interesting, that your body has difficulty digesting it- could be psychological. Have you looked into it?
Yes! I did ask my OBGYN, who is a super sex positive nerd and also a very woman positive male doc. His first theory is that semen contains prostaglandins, that can also cause uterine contractions to move labor along, and that could cause the cramping - if there is food in the belly, cramping doesn't hurt as it just helps move the food along, but it can be painful and irritating on an empty. Second theory is that semen is very alkaline to kind of shield/buffer the sperm from the acid in the female reproductive tract, so it throws off the acid balance of the stomach. Either way, eating helps, and I feel sexier when I'm properly nourished anyway.
Ah, interesting! Thank you for sharing! As long as you are fine and there’s a way to deal with it, it’s fine, right? Since you are wise to swallow..🌝☺️
Haha yes! It's interesting how much more in-tune I've had to become since pregnancy and childbirth. I'm lucky that my OB and medical team were very supportive in helping me to get confident about asking for what I want, prioritising my comfort and safety, advocating for myself instead of just bearing with "minor" annoyances, etc.., and it has really positively impacted my sex and work lives, which is a welcome surprise!
I did not have "nutritional value of cum" on my 2025 reading list, but here we are. The point about emotional and sexual connection being intertwined for both men and women is solid—people love to act like men are robots with no need for emotional affirmation. That said, the "it's smart to swallow" line gave me an out-of-body experience.
LMAO, bold question. I think my to-do list is already overwhelming enough without adding nutritional research to it. 😂 But hey, never say never… science is always evolving.
Indeed there is. If it’s jut lust, there’s an intensity and dirtiness to it, but it leaves one unsatiated, wanting always more, harder, rougher… with love, it’s more satisfying, but also often more plain, ritualistic…
I really appreciate your thoughts here. I for one, LOVE the taste of a woman’s juices. I. Major get enough. Cum in my mouth and let me taste her, I say.
And yes I agree with you that it is not just the physical want of her swallowing my cum… it is absolutely the emotional part that she ENJOYS hay comes out of me and loves the idea that she created the orgasm. I would love it if a gal were to not only swallow me, but enjoy it like I enjoy her cum.
I get what you're saying—you’re pointing out the double standards and how men also crave to feel fully accepted and desired. And yeah, intimacy is a two-way street. But at the end of the day, it all comes down to mutual respect and understanding. Nobody should feel pressured to do something they’re uncomfortable with, just like nobody wants to feel rejected for who they are. Real connection happens when both people feel safe, valued, and free to express themselves without judgment.
It literally just feels better
It really is a way to feel fully accepted by your partner. When I was younger, I had experiences with women who couldn’t hide the disgust on their faces when they’d see the result of a climax. It even extended to the actual penis, where I heard from a few “I like how dicks feel but I don’t like looking at them”. I blame this mostly on immaturity and lack of proper and healthy education, expectations, and societal values.
Now that I’m 32, the women I encounter seem genuinely enthused to look at my body and take interest in pleasuring me.
But the “pillow princess” mentality is still all too prevalent with this sentiment that the women are gifting men and gracing them with their mere presence as opposed to acknowledging the mutual gift and experience of intercourse.
..and they are missing out greatly. With time they will know- or not.
I love swallow because a) I love him; and/or b) worship him; and/or c) am so fucking horny and want him to be to; BUT the prerequisite and logistical limitation is that I need a snack beforehand, preferably ginger ale and saltines (so not hot, I know), so that I am not blowing on a totally full or totally empty stomach, because I have a sensitive stomach and something about semen on an empty stomach gives me a stomachache. Unfortunately. So please offer me a snack before you go waving your dick in my face.
Well, you know how to help yourself, that’s great! it’s interesting, that your body has difficulty digesting it- could be psychological. Have you looked into it?
Yes! I did ask my OBGYN, who is a super sex positive nerd and also a very woman positive male doc. His first theory is that semen contains prostaglandins, that can also cause uterine contractions to move labor along, and that could cause the cramping - if there is food in the belly, cramping doesn't hurt as it just helps move the food along, but it can be painful and irritating on an empty. Second theory is that semen is very alkaline to kind of shield/buffer the sperm from the acid in the female reproductive tract, so it throws off the acid balance of the stomach. Either way, eating helps, and I feel sexier when I'm properly nourished anyway.
Ah, interesting! Thank you for sharing! As long as you are fine and there’s a way to deal with it, it’s fine, right? Since you are wise to swallow..🌝☺️
Haha yes! It's interesting how much more in-tune I've had to become since pregnancy and childbirth. I'm lucky that my OB and medical team were very supportive in helping me to get confident about asking for what I want, prioritising my comfort and safety, advocating for myself instead of just bearing with "minor" annoyances, etc.., and it has really positively impacted my sex and work lives, which is a welcome surprise!
I did not have "nutritional value of cum" on my 2025 reading list, but here we are. The point about emotional and sexual connection being intertwined for both men and women is solid—people love to act like men are robots with no need for emotional affirmation. That said, the "it's smart to swallow" line gave me an out-of-body experience.
😄 I love that and your openness! Is it only your reading list or on the to do lost too?
LMAO, bold question. I think my to-do list is already overwhelming enough without adding nutritional research to it. 😂 But hey, never say never… science is always evolving.
Haha, keep me posted!
If a woman won’t swallow. She is not 100 percent into him no matter what she says.
true. if I am not into someone, I don´t like doing oral at all.
It's more than that. It's about mastery, domination, ownership, appreciation... but most of all: devotion.
riiiight....all the things that say "I love you"
More like “I lust you”. But both together are best.
you think there is a difference? and if so, you think, there also is a difference in depth and intensity?
Indeed there is. If it’s jut lust, there’s an intensity and dirtiness to it, but it leaves one unsatiated, wanting always more, harder, rougher… with love, it’s more satisfying, but also often more plain, ritualistic…
Fuck yes, all of this!
I think it’s because it feels damn good as your about to cum , I don’t really know just accept it as a gift from our cocks? , please
“gift from our cocks” haha, that´s amazing"!
Glad I could be so delightfully insiteful
Tell me why , you think men like it ? , your turn …., why do you like your pussy being licked? , do you ?
It’s the most arousing feeling when all of is welcome, loved and even desired. Nothing beats that.
I really appreciate your thoughts here. I for one, LOVE the taste of a woman’s juices. I. Major get enough. Cum in my mouth and let me taste her, I say.
And yes I agree with you that it is not just the physical want of her swallowing my cum… it is absolutely the emotional part that she ENJOYS hay comes out of me and loves the idea that she created the orgasm. I would love it if a gal were to not only swallow me, but enjoy it like I enjoy her cum.
The swallowing movement feels incredible. It's not complicated.
Oh boy! Do I even want to read this? 😭
Did you?
I just did. I am glad I did. I like the way you write.
Thank you, love the compliment!
I get what you're saying—you’re pointing out the double standards and how men also crave to feel fully accepted and desired. And yeah, intimacy is a two-way street. But at the end of the day, it all comes down to mutual respect and understanding. Nobody should feel pressured to do something they’re uncomfortable with, just like nobody wants to feel rejected for who they are. Real connection happens when both people feel safe, valued, and free to express themselves without judgment.
The sucking out is the prerequisite for swallowing, isn’t it?
Woof!
That one landed below the belt.