"Why are men turned on by swallowing?"

Double standards and potential healing.

I saw a post on Instagram on the nutrition value of cum. A woman commented below “Why do men want women to swallow their cum?”, something like that. The way she asked implied annoyance, eye rolling, “men always want these weird things” kind of thinking. It just showed once more the double standards applied in todays world when it comes to men and women. Read more to get my point.

First of all, it may sometimes read as if I didn´t like women as much, which is not the case- what is true though, is, that I don´t like the victim mentality that a lot of women take on(and then often “fight back”) and the double standards that are applied. Just like here.

So, why do men like their cum swallowed? Because they want to be loved and adored just like women do too. The thing, that opens a woman the most, is when she feels loved with all she brings. Women love it and nowadays often command it, rightfully so. Well, for men it´s no different: he wants to feel loved and adored with all he brings. So, when she swallows his cum and likes it, she takes an essential part of him and signals “I want all of you”, that´s a huge turn on. And by the way, it is smart to swallow it bc of its potency

It´s not even that for men it´s “always the sexual” and for women it´s always the emotional- women also feel adored and wanted when he wants all of her juices and really, emotional and sexual is interconnected, we don´t need to draw these lines.

Often it is the very women, who command princess treatment, who wouldn´t reciprocate the effort and love.

I talk a lot about what men can do to be a great man and lover but of course, if she does not give back, the goal is not to give and give to her and burn out in the process.

I would love to see more and more women opening themselves to these things, for their own good, but also for men. There is so much potential healing in sexuality- if we open ourselves to it.