This is a very good observation. More than once, I have experienced a woman initiate “this first fight” as if we were already in a relationship, when in reality we are not even intimate yet. It feels very premature and disappointing. Sometimes I have persisted with the same woman, who has been happy to attend date after date, but she frequently repeats the accusation, even though I have never leveled any criticism at her. It is very sad.
Well, I can say, that I feel quickly if something is off. With him, he just behaved harshly and I responded to it. It’s always a good idea to check in with yourself, because women typically feel things you are not aware of.
as long as he thinks her as not an equal conflict will happen simple.
nothing beats being real if you have to be someone just to be rejected or accepted that is a bad game.
This is a very good observation. More than once, I have experienced a woman initiate “this first fight” as if we were already in a relationship, when in reality we are not even intimate yet. It feels very premature and disappointing. Sometimes I have persisted with the same woman, who has been happy to attend date after date, but she frequently repeats the accusation, even though I have never leveled any criticism at her. It is very sad.
Well, I can say, that I feel quickly if something is off. With him, he just behaved harshly and I responded to it. It’s always a good idea to check in with yourself, because women typically feel things you are not aware of.
It seems that he was lucky in this regard, because you communicated to him what you were feeling.
Is there a way to become aware of it even if it is not communicated in this way?
He didn’t feel lucky 😄
Yes, learn to read women, understand masculine-feminine dynamics and the cues they give you.
The less defensive you are, the better
Thanks. That’s useful info.