YOU have all the answers

Generic advice rarely works.

The Man She Wants is a publication by Men´s Relationship Coach Franziska Zaar to awaken men to the kind of power that reshapes their relationships from the inside out.

I know, that men are into practical tipps and it is tempting to write “How to get laid in 5 steps” lists, well, not so much for me as my brain forms into weird knots and my fingers stand still, unable to pretend there are one and done solutions. They don´t exist, this is just marketing and flat. Also, my strength is to recognize in depth whoever is in front of me and pull that out of them, but not to be flat and lie. So, for the sake of content creation I do my best to put together tipps, that are true for everyone, finding common ground of masculinity but of course, it looks different in every man and as said before: it is about embodying things, it´s not about behavioural change or at least not that alone- you can do the same thing with very different intentions. Ok, but this is true for all of us: we have the answers in us and often we are even connected to them, but do not listen. Or we do listen- in this case, you can skip this article.

When working with men one on one, I noticed, they usually find themselves in situations they struggle with because they ignored their inner voice. To anyone being in the self development world, this doesn´t come as surprise, but still, it can be tricky to hear that voice in the moment.

Let me give you examples