Men are inherently GOOD

This is not new, it´s not a surprise, but it should be screamed from the rooftops

I write about how women feel men- the subtle dynamics, the silent impact, the moments that shape safety, desire and connection. My work guides men into deeper presence, integrity and grounded masculine leadership.

This is a post I am very excited about because it´s hard to argue with while it says what I always said: men are inherently good. Masculinity is inherently good. I didn´t have the scientific proof to validate it, but I always felt it.

Simmo posted a study that talks about the effects of testosterone. They gave a group of women testosterone- one half received the real hormone without knowing, the other half received a placebo, so they believed they were given the hormone but weren´t. The group that were given the actual testosterone became fairer, more generous and were more efficient in social interactions. The group that was told they were given the hormone but wasn´t became more unfair and aggressive.

In other words: testosterone makes you more social than aggressive and self centered.

Testosterone is not the only hormone that is more pronounced in men but it is an important player, so this study tells you something about what toxic masculinity and every negative narrative about masculinity/men is- a presumptious idea, that shapes our Western world in a negative way.

For men it is natural to bring their strengths and gifts to their family and community, that´s what all men I know do- where it goes out of whack is when men lose themselves in it, so they lack a strong center. In addition to that- this might seem contradictive but it´s not- with all the negative ideas around masculinity and men now, many men started holding back and became miserable.

I have always said, that bad behaviour is not inherent, it comes through conditioning and pain, and this study confirms, that what needs to happen, is not abolishing masculinity or men, it also isn´t about accepting bad behaviour and calling it masculine- it´s to strip away the false layers and get to the core of who we are. It´s about growth!

That´s why polarity work is so potent- it works with your masculinity instead of against it, and by this you meet all the parts of you that stand in the way of this power.

Masculinity is good. Men are good. Men are needed- in full power.

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